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Monday, 1 October 2007

CHRIS MAINWARING TRAGEDY!


Day 213

A good friend has just told me ex Eagles star, and Channel 7 reporter, Chris Mainwaring died last night...

Our "Mainey"..gone. I can't believe it. We're both stunned at the news.

It is so tragic...i feel devestated at this shocking news...our Gero boy...such a hard year...with all the Eagles troubles...Ben Cousins and Judd leaving, not getting into the premiership..and just everything..

And the night after the grandfinal. Geepers.

Oh dear..gosh, his poor wife and kids...oh dear...gee, his father Hub will be devestated (still lives in Gero.

What happened?

Wanting news in New Jersey!

jen & Greg xx

UPDATE: News below..

News sent from Elise from this website -> http://www.realfooty.com.au/news/

AN autopsy will determine whether drugs were involved in the sudden death of former West Coast Eagles star Chris Mainwaring amid reports he had cannabis and ecstasy before his collapse.

The TV sports presenter collapsed and died in Perth early yesterday, shortly after refusing help from police and ambulance officers.

The two-time premiership player had reportedly been on a weekend binge, involving cannabis and ecstasy, after his marriage breakdown.

West Australian police spokesman Ian Hasleby would not comment today on reports drugs were behind Mainwaring's death.

But he said major crime detectives would look at "all aspects" in their investigation.

Toxicology tests were being done and a post-mortem examination would be done today or tomorrow, he said.

Police and ambulance officers went to Mainwaring's home in the beach suburb of Cottesloe about 11.30pm (WST) after a complaint he was yelling in the street.

He appeared calm and refused help from the ambulance officers who left him in the care of a neighbour.

But ambulance officers found him collapsed when called back to his home about an hour later.

Former Eagles AFL coaches have refused to speculate on whether drugs and alcohol were involved.

Former Eagles coach Ron Alexander would not be drawn on whether Mainwaring's death was symptomatic of a wider cultural problem at West Coast.

"It's not up to me to reject or accept any of these sorts of things. I'm not close enough to be making any informed comments. I'm just talking about a young man who unfortunately is not with us anymore," he said on ABC radio.

Alexander said Mainwaring was in good spirits when he last saw him about a month ago.

Alexander's successor, John Todd, urged Mainwaring's teammates to learn from his death.

"Certainly they'll learn from that, there's no doubt about that, and hopefully a lot of good will come out of it," Todd said on ABC radio.

"Chris was a little larrikin. He was one of those jovial types of lads.

"He ended up becoming a very good individual - as a person, as a player - and hopefully there's a message there for others that they can learn from what's tragically happened to Chris."



NEWS from: http://wwos.ninemsn.com.au/article.aspx?id=301417

Mainwaring's family pays loving tributes
By Nicolas Perpitch 20:33 AEST Wed Oct 3 2007
The wife and children of former West Coast Eagle Chris Mainwaring have remembered their husband and father in touching, personal tributes.

Theirs were among dozens of condolence notices posted in newspapers in memory of Mainwaring, who died suddenly at his beachside home in the Perth suburb of Cottesloe early on Monday morning.

An autopsy was being carried out on Wednesday and toxicology tests could determine within days whether drugs played a role in the 41-year-old's death.

Mainwaring's wife Rani said she would always miss her "beautiful, loving and amazing husband".

"My life without you in it will be so difficult and empty, but as you have always been my rock in life, I will go on and I promise to keep the children as happy and safe as you always did," she said.

"I love you with all my heart and will miss you every second of every day.

"I will cherish and keep our beautiful memories so close to my heart."

Mainwaring's daughter Maddy, eight, said she would always remember him.

"Thank you for being my Dad. I will miss you very much. Lots of love, Maddy."

And six-year-old Zac thanked his dad for teaching him to play football: "You've been my best Daddy and I will miss you lots."

Police and ambulance were called to Mainwaring's home late on Sunday night following complaints he was screaming for help and acting strangely.

The TV presenter reportedly told paramedics he had taken ecstasy and smoked cannabis, but was alright.

An hour later, paramedics returned and found Mainwaring unconscious. He was rushed to hospital and pronounced dead a short time later.

Eagles star Ben Cousins, who Mainwaring had mentored since his debut with the club in 1996, visited his friend's home twice in the hours before his death.

Detectives say they will interview Cousins as part of their investigations for a coroner's report.

Mainwaring played a key role in Cousins' decision to check himself into drug rehabilitation for a month in April.

But Mainwaring had his own problems and was very depressed, the former AFL star's father, Hub Mainwaring, said.

Hub Mainwaring said his son's troubles began when he leaked confidential information about Cousins to a colleague at the Seven Network, where he worked.

This caused a major rift with his former club.

"That was the start of it, that incident with the Eagles, it really knocked the hell out of him," Hub Mainwaring told AAP.

Mainwaring was shattered that many of his old teammates and friends no longer trusted him, his father said.

"And then he had his personal problems, you know, and we didn't realise that he was just so bad.

"He just wouldn't answer ... my wife tried to go down there, but he said, 'Please leave me alone, mum'.

"I don't think he did it deliberately but he was very depressed, very depressed.

"I wish we had our time again, we should have gone down there and taken over."

The West Coast Eagles said any differences with Mainwaring over the Cousins affair had been patched over.

Former Eagles star Glen Jakovich also said Mainwaring told him in late August his relations with the club were back to normal.

"The idea of a rod between him and the club and stretched friendships with ex-premiership players is totally incorrect," Jakovich said.

"He actually said to me, 'It's all back to normal, unfortunately it was a tough time given the circumstances Ben was going through', and he was just trying to be a friend, a mentor, an adult."

Jakovich said Cousins was "numb" at his mate's death.

Detectives from the Major Crime Squad later interviewed Cousins at his home for two hours, Seven Network reported.

Police also talked to Mainwaring's friend and former Eagle Adrian Barich about conversations and text messages he exchanged with his former team-mate in the days before his death.

"Anybody who had anything to do with Mainy in the last three or four days before he passed away, they'll be interviewing, I guess, to determine his demeanour and maybe draw what they can from what the people give to them," Barich told Seven.


©AAP 2007

WASHINGTON DC - OVERNIGHT IN NEW JERSEY

Day 212

New Jersey

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Thinking of you Sylvia at the loss of your friend
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Here we are in New Jersey! And once again the tour company hasexcelled withthe choice of hotel! We have a beautiful room...great books int he lobby...coffee machine and fridge in the room...

And this weird internet connection in the room!

Instead of using ireless we can use the TV to connect, no mouse though..and it"s really difficult to use. Sort of a webtv setup.

Anyway we're here and we had a good day, apart from all the bus travel that can be very tiresome! II read a Wilbur Smith book (Rage) the last time we did a lot of travel (train a that stage) and this time I'm read Anne Frank's definitive version of her diary.

She was a brilliant writer. IPity she never saw her work published as she dreamed.

I'd love to read her critical version. While we were at herhouse in Holland I also bought the book that has the last 7 months of her life which is tomorrow's book! (Lots of travel to Niagar Falls!)

Today we began the day early, 6am breakfast, and headed for Arlington Nationa Cemetery to see JFK and Jackie BKO Kennedy (Bouvier Onassis) graves. Their simple headstons are flanked by a headstone of a 2 day old baby of theirs who died in 1963 (same year he was shot) and a little daughter from just after they were married.

The inscription reads, "...with history teh final judge o our deeds..." (quoted from his inaugural address)

Interesting hat Jackie is buried there with JFK and i can only assume tha's because she was patriotic and always considered herself American and didn't want to be buried in Greece with her husband Aristotle Onassis.

Her so, who died in the plane crash wasn't there either..

His brother was also buried there and has a simple wooden cross on a green lawn.

We spent all morning hee! Thn headed off to The National American Indian Musuem where we saw the wonderful dresses the women, and men for that matter, wore!

Gosh Americans so their museum well too! Such finish to everything.

The hilarious aussie women on the tour did a heap of texting today to see who was winning the rugby and i jokenly aked who won the footy..

The AFL? They asked...and said it would be funny to ask their kids who won even though they are not supporters, so they text'd their family..and we found out Geelong won. Everyone cheered, "Go the Cats! Even tho no one, incl us, knew who they were!

Apparently their kids thought they were goin mad to be texting asking that..and thought they must have having a terrible holiday!

Ended the day with everyone grizzling so much about the mexican/american driver and the swedish/american tour guide! We were thankful to hear we will we have a change fo driver and guide for the Niagara component! No one tipped these two!

Off to bed now...this silly webtv is horrible..and this had take so long to do!

See you in....well, next time we get internet!

xoxoxoxo

PS My tooth is so lose i'm praying for it to fall out! The last dentist , in Amsterdam, said he couldn't cement it in until it falls out! Hmmm

NEW YORK - WASHINGTON DC

Day 211 still...
Washington DC

From Manhatten we travelled south to Washington through New Jersey where we picked up 8 more people, making our tour group 20. The driver didn"t have the faintest idea where to go and was relying on the poor tour guide to find our way!

Honestly, she was so frazzled i think she had a mild panic attack. which I'm pretty sure made her more dottery and senseless than she was before the muddle up!

We were happy not to be thinking about all this but the rest of the group were protesting wildly!

There were 2 Italians, 2 Londoners, 2 South Africans, 2 Singaporeans and the rest from American states joined the group.

2 Aussie women (real charachers called Gail and Lynne) we met from Sydney complained about the microphone not working so we did a detour off to the beaen track to what the guide called "real America" (back blocks of New Jersey!) to meet another bus with a decent microphone!

Greg and I thought it was quite adventurous!

In Washington we called in to the Air and Space Museum which had displays on the story of Flight.

We saw Skylab and Apollo 11 command module Columbia, that carried home the astronauts from the first landing on the moon...

And we saw the SpaceShip One, the first privately built, piloted vehicle to reach space, and we learned about the history of the Spirit of St Louis (where Charles Lindbergh completed the first solo nonstop transatlantic flight).

All really fascinating! Greg was riveted! Pity we didn"t have more time, but you know what tours are like! They do have their downfalls, timewise.
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The monuments that were really fascinating were the Washington, Lincoln and Thomas Jefferson Memorials. All separate memorials, and ll individual and large proud inscriptions on walls dedicated to them.

TheAmericans are so patriotic and really honour their presidents! Each of these particular memorials have HUGE statues of Lincoln and Jeffereson!

We thought of Martin Luther King and his Freedom speech as we stood on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial...

We also paid homage to the Korean and Vietnam memorials (and our Australians) and then...off to the White House!

This was so well secured. The Ditzy guide said it wasn't usually like that but the UN were sitting last week and important visitors were expected!

The White House was behind a HUGE fence and outside were so many police, protestors and people!

Getting anywhere in Washington was HARDWORK!

It's not the streets that are a worry, tit's the people everywhere! And she said it wasn't busy!

About the streets and buildings....
it's so much like Canberra with the wide streets, sculpured buildings with clean lines....except the buildings are all white and neoclassical architecture.Quite beautiful really.

We had to drop a guy off at the central Washington DC train station...and ohlala what a station. Beautiful. Something to proudly show dignitories aroond the world! Even the doors swung open automatically!

But I was glad when the bus veered out of there, far from the maddning crowd to our LUXURIOUS Crown Plaza Washinon DC Hotel! We ordered room service (About the only place where we"ve been able to, thank god for tours, esp in US where they do everything so well!!)

Day 2 of our tour tomorrow and we're off to New Jersey after a day at the Arlington National Cemetery and the American Indian Natinal Museum!.

LEAVING NY ON TOUR

Day 211

After our hectic day yesterday where we saw Ground Zero, Mamia Mia which i have told you about...and to the Statue of Liberty, which i haven't told you about!

We went on a boat and sailed around The Statue of Liberty as now you can't get into it or even close via the land due to the increased security since 9/11! There are literally thousands of police in New York City. I"d hate to think how many police there would be in New York State (including The Bronx, Manhatten, Queens and Boston!) Too many to even imagine!

Anyway, to continue, after our hectic day and finally getting to bed, we woke pu early (four hours later) and returned to Manhattan again for our tour.

And we still have 2 trips on the Airbus left and 2 days left on our subway card! Doing well! (You have to pay to enter and exit the airport and becaus we've been taking the free shuttle toour hotel each morning and night we had to get a Air Bus ticket for $25 each.and a 7 day subway ticket for $28 each!) It actually works out cheaper than paying a taxi which would be mi $50 one way to Manhatten from Queens.

We were lucky to make it in time for the tour. We ended up gettingthere with one minute to spare!

But from then on, it was a big F up! The tour guide was hopless....and the driver got us lost! Oh well....

At least we got to see Washington DC

MAMMA MIA ON BROADWAY!

Mamma mia..here we go again....

At a concert!

This time we went to see Mama Mia at the Winter Garden Theatre on 50th Street Broadway!

Oh, I must mention the streets in New York too! They are all labelled as streets, avenues or drives! There was certainly no thinking involved when they were thinking up names for streets were there!

And i'd have to say 5th Avenue (Tiffany's!) and 42nd Street (love the name!) were my favs! :-)

Broadway starts at Trump Tower (amazing buildings these are!) in Central Park (which is beautiful - so elegant! NY parks have tables and chairs in them!) and goes right down to Wall Street which is downtown lower Manhattan near Brooklyn Bridge!)

Mama Mia, was a fabulous concert. As usual, the last concert we've seen,is the best!

But like i said before, how can we reallly compare each country's concerts with any other.They all have their own magic!

It was based on ABBS's songs..produced by Benny and Bjorn from Abba. The way they weaved thesongs into the story of a mother who had a daughter that was getting married and had invited her 3 'suspected' unknown fathers"along was quite wonderful! So funny! It was a tragic comedy...

I did wonder if the character, "Bill" was American in the Australian production, abecausein the American production he was Australian!

After we watched the show, we went to our place of addiction, Starbucks for coffee and sandwich (Red Lobster was booked out Cazza so it must be good!) we had to go back to our hotel o ntheSubway and air shuttle..and after we negotiaged 'nicely' the aiport shuttle service then took us back free!

Such a rigmarole to come and go from Manhatten, from Queens, where we"re staying that"s for sure! (Takes a hour and a half to get in...whch is why we stay in from morning to night!)

Off to Washington DC tomorrow...nighties!

GROUND ZERO

Manhattan, New York, USA

New York now is synonymous with Ground Zero. But it wasn't always like that..

Before September 11th, 2001 going to Battery Park was the place to go to see the Trade Center Buildings.

And the sign posts that were in place then, are still in place. It was very strange to be on the subway and still see the directions to The World Trade Center..

And these comprised of 7 buildings, 5 that surrounded the two largest towers in New York. The Twin Towers.The area set aside for these buildings was 16 acres.with a 5 acre central area or the Twin Towers. Huge hey?

The Twin towers were huge! They were 110 storeys high and could be seen 4 miles away in all directions. Definitely the largest and tallest buildings in NY! (Now the Statue of Liberty is, one again!)

When these 7 buildings were built on reclaimed land from the Hudson River in 1970 (and opened in 1973) there was a 47 storey office building, two 9 storey office buildings, an 8 storey US Customs office and a 22 storey hotel as well as the prominent Twin Towers.

Each day 90,000 tourists and visitors went through these buildings. There were 50,000 people employed in the Twin Towers.

On that fateful and tragic day, now called 9/11 3000 people lost their lives.

The devestation was massive.

When we walked through the area all we saw was a huge mass of dirt, machines, people working, and havoc. IT still looks like a disaster zone.And such a massive area.

I didn't know what to expect when we arrived there. In fact it looked more like an industrial area. But the security gave the area away.There were police everywhere! The whole section is partitioned off.The whole 5 acres. On four sides it had hessian like curtains so you couldn't even see in.

One area was open to view and that was only because they were working inside the area. The were still carefully cleaning up the area 6 years later. And still finding body parts as well we were told.

We ended up standing on some planter boxes to see inside the area.

All disruption and chaos..

We eventually realised there was a walking tour avaliable, with all tour guides being able to retell personal stories (a requirement of all the 9/11 to our guides) and a museum that had all the faces of the victims posted on the walls.

It was very sad thinking about all the victims of this tragedy..and the stories that were told were so poignant, both of the heroes and of the families who lost their loved ones.

We've all heard the stories, and see the news, but to be there was really powerful in a sense the loss that was felt there..and the ditintigration of so many bodies..people, lives..and not only of the victims, but of their families too.

To think, of the 3000 victims declared dead, only around 250 bodies were recovered...